Thank you for this.Thank you for your honesty. It is not fair that we ask you to be this open in order for us to understand, and still way too many do not. I can tell that you already know this, but just want to counter the claims below, you are not the problem. White ignorance, power, and lack of empathy is the problem. All my best, Meg.

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